I was made very aware of what Mom's day is like. I continue to be amazed at her ability to be everything she can be for Dad, take care of a condo that always seems to need her attention, deal with the occasional car issues that seem to creep up, AND still pay attention to all the "lingo" that goes with having a loved one in the hospital. (I washed your "superhero cape," Mom ;) )
Dad was pretty content this weekend, and said things like, "Can you hear TV?" and "Watch what you want" and "It helps to know you are here - I can relax." He also wanted to know, "What's Josh (my 16-year-old son) up to?" I was driving Mom's car while I was in town and I told Dad I would top it off with gas before leaving, to which he immediately shook his head "no." He never wants me to pay for gas or food when I am there ;) It's just one way he still tries to provide for me. :)
While I was in town, I got a chance to go to the Creation Museum. Dad asked, "What part are you going to see?" so conversational - a great sign. While at the museum in the gardens, I found a bench tucked out of the way and decided to rest a bit. Moments later I was sobbing at the frustration of the situation. My Dad should NOT have to go through this! I was so angry at the illness, at the fact that he "hasn't seen the sun in four months," at everything. But not at God. And not at any of the people also affected by this or caring for him. Just angry because it's not fair.
But this is normal, and expected. If we didn't have these moments of emotional release, we would explode. I'm certain of it.
Dad had visitors Friday evening - a huge thank you to Dave and Dan!
Visitors on Saturday evening - Sue and Dave Giegler - Thank you! Sorry - I forgot to leave a note that I was at the museum ;) lol
Visitors Sunday afternoon - Lee and Karen Mason <3
Dad LOVES visitors, and he may not be able to talk very well, but as he told Tim and his family upon their arrival Monday afternoon, "the company is priceless." :)
Becky :)
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