It is with great love and sadness that we extend our sympathy to Sandy Banta, on the passing of Fred.
FredandSandy, it seems like we always say their names as one word, have been friends with SteveandNancy for decades. They have shared many experiences- the most recent being last week- side by side rooms for Dad and Fred in ICU and sharing the same nurse. (ICU RNs have a 2 patient assignment).
FredandSandy have been a very essential pillar of support for Mom and Dad through this illness. Their names are mentioned over and over in the Thank You blogs.
Unfortunately, Dad is too sick right now to process his friend's passing. Mom would like to be the one to tell him, and she would like to wait until the move back to LTAC is certain. Tomorrow? Dad's vitals are solid but his spirit seems fragile. If you visit please steer clear of this subject. (Thank you)
The last 2 weeks in ICU, in addition to fighting infection, Dad has been extremely uncomfortable in his ICU bed and rather demoralized in general. He has asked repeatedly to "get him out of there" Mom is staying the night with him tonight. He finds great comfort having her nearby.
MONDAY MORNING UPDATE: Dad will be moved back to LTAC at 4 pm today. She plans to talk to him about Fred on Tuesday morning. Please pray for comfort.
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